About Blaming

When I was browsing around the internet, got nothing to do, my boyfriend is on his military training in the jungle (with poor mobile phone signal, and limited charging station), suddenly I thought about blaming each other. I heard a lot of people love to blame each other when something bad happens. I'm not saying that I never blame other for bad things happened on me. I'm a really stubborn person (I hope next year this stubbornness gone from me forever). And I asked my self, when will this blaming each other stop?

It depends on each individual actually. When something bad happened on me, I tried to think that it's not someone's fault. Shit happens. That's all. If I keep trying look for whose fault it is, then the problem would never be solved. And blaming myself isn't helpful too after all. When I'm having problem, the first thing I need to do is find the solution. And evaluate myself. Think why it happens. If it's clear that I did a mistake, then I should apologize. If it's clearly someone's mistake, and he/she didn't apologize for it, don't blame him/her straight away but try to speak to him/her for the helpful solution. It takes a lot of patience for not blaming someone.

When will people be tired of blaming each other? 

Stop blaming is a part of being mature.

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Life After College

As soon-to-be-graduated student (Yay! Congratulations for myself) I really can't wait to be graduated. But, actually what am I gonna do after graduation? Graduation may be one the happiest day in my life. All of my hard works for 4 years finally will be paid off. But being graduated doesn't make me feel I'm a better person. There are more people who are successful even though they didn't go to college or people who failed to finish college.

And being graduated means that we will have more new harder experiences, like, to survive in your life. I've been surviving my life since my father died when I went at college for the first day. I didn't want my mother to worry about me, so I tried few efforts to survive, include scholarships, etc. Life after college might be harder and might be more challenging. We will deal with a lot of unique people. Experiencing to work at companies, or maybe building your own company.

I choose to build my own company. I know it will be a difficult and long journey. I have dreams too. And no matter how difficult obstacles that will come to me, I always believe those obstacles will make me stronger. Right now I work as a web designer at a small company in my town. I love the job, it helps me to gain new lessons and experiences that I didn’t learn at college. The truth is, what you learned at college sometimes isn't that useful in real life.

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22 before 23

Everyone's getting older, so don’t be afraid of getting older. Your age doesn't reflect your maturity, right? This year, I will turn into 23 years old and I have some lists I have to accomplish before 23. Here are 22 things I have to accomplish before 23!

Words // Have A Sweet Weekend People

Finally it's Saturday and I have time for my self. It's been a tiring week for me with assignments and preparing my next little project. I love Saturday, because it's the day when I can relax for a moment, grab my brushes and paints and starts painting. I love painting since I was a kid. And that's a gift from God so I have to use it well.

It's a day when I can treat my self. Whether it's a beauty treatment (head-to-toe) or treat my right brain with some illustrations I made. Everyone deserves a nice treatment for their hard work. And also, Saturday is the day when I can have a long call with my boyfriend.

Quotes of The Week

Go ahead and do what you have to do with someone you love!

Quotes of The Week

La vie est belle means life is beautiful. I've been through a lot of things this month but I realize that God will be always beside me no matter how sad my life is. I hope you'll be thankful for your life!