About Blaming

When I was browsing around the internet, got nothing to do, my boyfriend is on his military training in the jungle (with poor mobile phone signal, and limited charging station), suddenly I thought about blaming each other. I heard a lot of people love to blame each other when something bad happens. I'm not saying that I never blame other for bad things happened on me. I'm a really stubborn person (I hope next year this stubbornness gone from me forever). And I asked my self, when will this blaming each other stop?

It depends on each individual actually. When something bad happened on me, I tried to think that it's not someone's fault. Shit happens. That's all. If I keep trying look for whose fault it is, then the problem would never be solved. And blaming myself isn't helpful too after all. When I'm having problem, the first thing I need to do is find the solution. And evaluate myself. Think why it happens. If it's clear that I did a mistake, then I should apologize. If it's clearly someone's mistake, and he/she didn't apologize for it, don't blame him/her straight away but try to speak to him/her for the helpful solution. It takes a lot of patience for not blaming someone.

When will people be tired of blaming each other? 

Stop blaming is a part of being mature.

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The It Girl Pre-Launch Giveaway!

I talked so much about The It Girl on my previous posts. Yes, I'm really excited with this project. The It Girl is a website that every woman needs. There will be so much inspiring articles for woman in order to experience better and balance life. While we prepare for the website, we make a pre-launch giveaway. Two lucky winners will get a goodie bag worth 500K IDR! The goodie bag consist of topshop lip bullet, ted baker body spray, the garden collection, and seventeen lip gloss. I wanted to keep it for myself :p But, of course I wouldn't do that. It's for YOU!

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Freebie // Wallpaper Dream Big Start Small

Yay! I'm so excited today to share a new freebie. A wallpaper for your phone/laptop/desktop. I made this during working time at my office. I love this quotes I found in #GIRLBOSS book. Honestly, I'm kind of tired with my jobs. So I created this wallpaper for you. And I realize that I start to do stuff I don't like. I think I will take a break for a while of taking some web-designing projects, and start to build my dreams. It really took my time so much on doing projects. I could say that it was tedious job. Not that I don't web-designing. I do love it. But I wanna do other stuff, like, blogging, painting, etc.